I am a liberal, old, white woman who has supported equal rights for women and people of color over the decades. I would NEVER vote for a white supremacist like Trump.
I do not know the black experience because I was born into white privilege. This is not to say I did not experience poverty as a child or did not work hard over the years. And I might add, I have had to deal with over-zealous police who scared the bejesus out of me, but my outcome was better than that of a person of color.
Why is the church, MY CHURCH, not doing a better job defending the rights of black people? We must acknowledge there are a number of bigots in our congregation who would claim they are not. The white, thinking church congregants want to be too polite. Don’t rock that boat! We protect the feelings of people who hate because they are volatile, loud and will throw scriptures around like bread crumbs to ducks on a pond. Enough!
I am scratching my head over the hypocrisy of this position considering Biblical teachings.
Over the past few years, I personally have had the following experiences with other women, just to name a few:
- I did not feel a team calling itself the Rebels and carrying a Confederate flag (the flag tradition ended, I believe) should be allowed in the public school setting. I was told by clergy that as a native Texan, she could accept this tradition. Apparently, Texas tradition trumps (pun intended) all things holy. As a congregant, this conversation diminished my respect for the practicing theology of my church. Needless to say, I left this church.
- I am a Methodist and have been very enthusiastic about educating girls in foreign countries, as well as in the U.S. This was the original passion that drove the creation of United Methodist Women – the right for every girl to receive an education, especially in countries where girls were seen as “lesser than” the boys. When I asked why the mission of UMW was not being shared with the women in my church, I was told it was too political. I had never heard that mission was political in my previous churches. As a congregant, I felt I was being told to be silent, join a Bible study and allow ignorance to flourish in my congregation. Silence was polite and easy. Talking about the needs of brown children was too controversial. After all, we were allowing Hispanic children to be caged at the border in Texas and were remaining silent as a church.
- A church woman called me. In the course of our conversation she told me, “The Bible says you should respect Trump.” I need not expound on this church experience. Not pretty.
For women, like me, who were brought up to be polite and not create a scene, it requires some tenacity to speak up.
Our silence gives permission to evil intent in all its forms. I recognize at this point in history, I need to be vocal.
I am proud of our protesters. They are not only making demands for their own rights, but are most likely going to save our democracy.
Those of us with heart and intellect must be less polite and more engaged. We owe that to our black neighbors and to our country. The peril is great.